HOT & HOLY
Ayampe, Ecuador — November 5th–8th, 2026
You don’t have to be a good girl to create everything you desire.
Questions?
Click here to get access to "The House" where HotMami is personally answering all your Qs.
Most women believe
as you age or become a mother, you become less desirable, less sexy.
This couldn't be further from the truth.
Sexy isn't something you are born with.
And it cannot be lost.
Sexy is a feeling.
It's an inside job.
At Hot & Holy, we gather to cultivate sexy.
This is not a women’s wellness retreat.
(Though there will be plenty of time to rest and receive.)
It’s not a family-centered festival.
(Though your children are welcome and nannies are available.)
It’s a love affair with the power of being a woman through every era.
It’s where you remember that joy, ecstasy, & pleasure are the love language of The Divine.
Party Is Prayer
200 women and mothers.
The coast of Ecuador.
3 nights of the most sensual, sacred parties you have never been to.
A HotMami Dj set 'til Dawn
A Lingerie & Mirrors Party in the Jungle
A mushie company as our sponsor.
And, families welcome.
Nannie’s are actually affordable!
Because you are BOTH and both are allowed.
Have you noticed what we’ve noticed?
At some point we start to believe that to deserve what we want – money, partnership, purpose – we have to cut out the things we do after dark. Partying. Bad. Right?
But if they’re such wrong behaviors, why have humans been gathering, dancing, drumming, and entering altered states since the beginning of time?
Could it be this simple – permission to have more wild, unapologetic fun is the thing missing from your manifestation practice?
You’re invited to come party with us and the wild women you have been praying for.
Meet God on the Dance Floor
Join us for an in person experience that will change the way you get what you want.
See what else is waiting for you in Ayampe
Questions?
Click here to get access to "The House" where HotMami is personally answering all your Qs.
Permission to party: GRANTED
You were told you had to be a good girl to be a good mom.
But we all know the truth: The BEST moms are bad girls.
What you do under the cover of darkness connects you with the feminine power of creation. The proof?
Look no further than how we create life.
What’s included?
Three wild & sensual evening experiences
Thursday: Beachfront Sunset Cocktails With The Girls
Friday: The Swankiest Lingerie & Mirror Party You Have Never Been To (Women Only)
Saturday: A HotMami in the Jungle Dj Set 'Til Dawn
Workshops & talks across Friday and Saturday
Native Wisdom Keepers, Feminine Energetics, Generational Wealth, Motherhood Reinvention, Twerkshops, Drumming, Salsa Lessons, Yoga & more.
Accommodation recommendations
Curated by vibe - choose the energy of your home space & inbound group airport transfer.
Access to the Hot & Holy community
Find your #hotmamis before you land plus sooo many goodies & surprises.
The Men who support our women are welcome at a separate ticket price. Children are welcome and nannies are available.
If your man & children are coming, please send us a message inside The House & we will reach out with a special ticket link.
Meet The Founders
HotMami
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When I got pregnant at 26, I did what Instagram moms told me to do. Sober. In bed by sundown.
I gave my son everything for three years – my energy, my time, my body, my essence.
I regret nothing. My son is an absolute gem.
But the moment we stopped breastfeeding, I remembered.
I remembered I love staying up til 2am. That I am a full body yes to tequila shots. That the greatest joy I have ever experienced is sunrise on the dancefloor. That mascara and a new dress make me fall in love with myself.
I remembered I am not just a mom.
And every time I dance til dawn, an ancient truth rings loud and clear:
Party is prayer. And the dancefloor is where we meet God
HolyMama
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In nearly 20 years of leading 150+ retreats, I have watched thousands of women arrive carrying the weight of being everything to everyone.
And I have watched them leave lighter. Because they reconnected with themselves and each other. They remembered.
Joy is not a reward for finishing your to-do list. Joy is the medicine.
When you are led by Venus and Eros you are responding to life-force energy. This is the most powerful and creative manifestation force on the planet.
This will be my first in-person event since May 2025 and the only group experience I host in 2026.
